The Attitude of Older People towards Sexuality
Keywords:
sexuality, stereotypes, ageing, intimacy, self-esteemAbstract
Sexuality represents an important quality part of elderly life. With the research, we wanted to explore what are the attitudes of the elderly towards sexuality and their stereotypes about it. We used a qualitative method of researching, the method of Grounded theory. The research instrument was the structured interview. Six people co-operated in the research; they are older than 65 and they live in domestic or institutional environment. We defined 46 codes with the interviews' analysis, which were placed into 9 sub-categories and formed 4 main categories. The qualitative analysis showed that intimacy is more important to the elderly than sexuality. The most frequent obstacles in sexuality are health issues, lack of a partner, and loss of interest. They do not notice stereotypes and prejudices, however, a general negative opinion in the society is noticed, which does not hurt them and does not influence their self-esteem or sexual activity. We established that sexuality is not essential for the elderly; however, they appreciate intimacy, closeness, and fondness of the other person. An honest friendship and respect between partners are especially important for them, which are the basis for an intimate relationship. We deermined that sexual stereotypes do not influence the respondents’ experience of sexuality or their self-respect. Therefore, it is important that we develop a more positive approach to the sexuality of the elderly, help reduce the stereotypes and develop better relationships between generations.
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